Thursday, February 09, 2006

february 9

i've discovered that i'm not very good at supervising. when i witness troubling behavior, my anxiety level starts to rise. partly because i feel responsible for poor performance and partly because i worry about how to address the behavior. although i know it's important to communicate my concerns before they start to multiply, i worry a lot about hurting people's feelings, coming across in an accusatory manner. but, today i think it went ok. i was able to spell out my expectations explicitly, gently.. i hope.

1 comment:

amy said...

should have hired me.....just kidding, i know exactly what you mean, it is really hard to be assertive - i get that same rise in anxiety from practically anything! it is really good not to let it build up so good job for taking care of it today (: